All Over Me Come through riot grrrls! Fortunately for both, love awaits — but not before the extroverted girl cons the introverted one with a cruel prank. Syd is an ambitious aspiring photo editor at a magazine, and Lucy is a once-famous photographer who lives in the same building as Syd. Gia In her younger years, Angelina Jolie made a habit of playing women who were devastatingly compelling, and constantly on the edge of shattering. Even though she won her Oscar for Girl, Interrupted , no character so fully embodied that wild volatility as Gia Carangi, a real model from the s who rocketed to global fame before a heroin addiction tore her down and she eventually died of AIDS.
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The movie is based on the book by Erica Fisher, which was written from actual accounts given to the author by the real Lilly Wust. The first If These Walls was based around the theme of abortion, but the sequel delves into three stories of three different lesbian couples living in different decades. The fantasy stops, however, when the two young lovers are torn asunder by prejudice and the pangs of being a teen in a space not safe for young queers.
What a time! Kissing Jessica Stein A treasure of the aughts, Jessica Stein is about two women who need more in their lives — in particular, they need more than men have proved capable of providing to either of them. Why, yes, we have that! Saving Face is about Wil Michelle Krusiec and Vivian Lynn Chen , two ladies brought together by unexpected attraction, pushed apart by diverging life paths, and then — well, it would be rude to spoil the end, but just get ready to dab your eyes.
No list of lesbian love stories would be complete without some schoolgirls who are also secret government agents, duty bound to apprehend a baddie Jordana Brewster who has a love thing burgeoning with one of the D. This movie has a boarding-school plot, nefarious seduction, lies, betrayal, sexual discovery, and more. This sweet little love story stars Piper Perabo as Rachel, a woman happily engaged to a very nice man named Heck Matthew Goode , but who only realizes what true love is for the first time after meeting the utterly charming Luce Lena Headey.
So many lesbian romance films involve death and tragedy and separation by the patriarchy or other horrible circumstances, but Imagine is just a movie filled with nice people doing their best. Life is complicated enough. It centers on two teenage girls coming into their own over the course of one summer in a lazy French suburb.
The Secrets Ha-Sodot , Nothing lifts up a lesbian love story like repressive religious upbringings. The two also meet an ill foreign woman named Anouk Fanny Ardant , who they try to cleanse through Kabbalah. Itty Bitty Titty Committee Somehow, Itty Bitty Titty Committee was made in , even though it looks like it was found in a time capsule from How lesbian is this movie? Circumstance If there is an emotional equivalent to getting doored by a parked car, Circumstance is it.
But why is it so crushing? Pariah Writer and director Dee Rees came on the scene as a force with her feature film debut, Pariah. The beautifully shot story focuses on Alike Adepero Oduye , a Brooklyn teen who is embracing her lesbian identity and looking for her first lover while taking heavy pushback from her mother about her masculine style — which obviously betrays her closeted sexual preferences.
It is one of the highest-profile — if not the highest-profile — black queer films of all time. Screw assisted living! These two are bolting for Canada so they can finally get married. What are men? I only see Robin Weigert serving up Julianne Moore domestic malaise realness. The sex scenes are visceral and intense, but are still somehow outmatched by the yearning Exarchopoulos is able to convey in her eyes. Be prepared to feel everything. Their highly choreographed relationship is a fascinating, sexy, and strange look at sexual power dynamics, and the opulent home Cynthia lives in makes for one hell of a stage for the movie to play out on.
Margarita With a Straw Written, directed, and produced by Indian filmmaker Shonali Bose, Margarita centers on Laila Kalki Koechlin , a teenage girl with cerebral palsy who takes a scholarship to attend New York University for a semester. During her time abroad, she falls for a blind activist named Khanum Sayani Gupta. So Erin being one of my best friends I couldn't let this happen.
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I looked at the schedule, realized she was closing so I decided to wait in the back for her so we could talk in person. When her and the other girl closing that night came out I was outside my car and The other girl left but Erin stayed. I explained to her that I was in fact hoping that she would have the same feelings for me when I told her how I felt. And when she didn't say that she did I was hurt and Brittany was just sort of a distraction all of which was true.
And I told her the reason I didn't tell her we were dating was because I didn't want to tell the girl I love that I'm dating some random co worker. I said this is the second time I'm opening up to you about my feelings and stuff. I told her she needed to say something. I asked her what was she was thinking right there. Because I could tell a lot of stuff was going through her mind. She kept on replying with "it's just not that simple" I said yes it is just tell me what you are thinking.
She kept replying the same thing. As I'm trying to get her to talk I keep waking closer and closer to her. It had gotten to where I was right in front of her. I was wearing a hoodie and she put her hands in the pockets. I asked her if her hands were cold she said no as I was looking down. I looked back up and put faces were 6 inches apart. I looked in the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen and they were looking right back at me. As our eyes were locked her gaze went from my eyes, to my lips, then to my eyes again.
That was the confirmation I needed and I went in for a kiss. She kissed me back and it was just magic. Im in love with a lesbian and really in love with her. Just a couple of days ago, i gave her up because im just hurting my self and even spent a fortune for her. Right now, im still moving on trying to admit that it will never happen.
I love her so much. I'm a straight girl in the reversed situation Also, people who here assume being gay is about society for girls but is just pure genetic for boys make me lose my faith in humanity even more I'm in exactly the same place man. I live with my BFF, a lesbian, but she is undoubtedly the girl I want forever. So, I've come to this conclusion: we will never be together romantically but I will never let her be out of my life. We live together now, so what I now aim for is a bisexual girl we can both take home. She'll never be yours but maybe you can enjoy sex together.
I was in a relationship entering the terminal stage, though I may not have known it at the time. Then I met this lesbian girl at a friend's bday party. To say she was the girl of my dreams would be an understatement. Everything I would want in terms of looks and personality. We clicked immediately and she was all I could think about. She negated to tell me she was a lesbian. And I chased her hard. There were so many red flags. And I may have listened to them had we not actually slept together a few times.
This was my undoing to be honest. As I slept with her, this gave me the idea that it was and is always a possibility. I did end up professing my love for her. But only after I felt she was starting to pull back.
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She proceeded to tell me that she is a lesbian at heart, though I was the only guy she ever considered going straight for and that she even considered if she was gay or bisexual, or even straight. Either way, I am trying to be friends with her since. It's not easy, and it's probably not the best idea if you are ever going to move on tbh.
As some have said on here, you end up being the person they turn to when they have their own problems, but then when they are in a relationship, you sort of become another friend and see them less. Only to become that shoulder to lean on when things go bad or they're single again. Even though at this stage, she probably wouldn't sleep with me if she was single again unless we're both well drunk. I feel like I'm compromising myself to spend time with her and that I'm only there when she needs me and not the other way around.
It's toxic, but I just find myself wanting to hang out with her, even over going on dates with random girls, as I can already tell they'd be a downgrade. I know the one thing I need to do is remove myself from the situation completely. But as they say, it's much easier said then done. I'm trying to change myself and have my own self worth be less dependent on hanging out with someone you love.
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I try to look at it positively too, I know I would've just stayed in a relationship that wouldn't have worked out and I wouldn't have also gone on a journey of self improvement if she didn't come along. But the harsh truth can be intimating and make you feel vulnerable. I feel like I am just trying to get to a point in my life where I have enough stability that I do not need her in my life, before I cut ties forever. Until then, you continue to torture yourself, talking to her like I would to my girlfriend without being sexual or anything.
My situation may be more difficult since we slept together so I always have that niggling doubt of whether things could work. But if this was happening to a friend of mine, I know exactly what my advice would be. And my friends have given me that exact advice, which I have chosen not to heed at this point. But regardless of whether they're straight or lesbian, if you love someone who doesn't love you back, you're only going to get over them if they are no longer around and in your mind.
Just thought I would share this, partly to get it off my chest and hopefully so others can learn from my story as well. I'm in love with a lesbian. I have long hair, but I don't wear dresses. The thing is, her girlfriend doesn't either. The girlfriend is kind of tomboyish. It seems I'm late to the party Please bear my bad english. In the 1st Q of I started to forge a very strong, really close friendship with this girl I already knew was a lesbian. In fact, around the last Q of she told me she was getting out of the closet She has had previous relationships between her teens and early 20's with some men but all of them failed.
Anyway -back to , during that time we talked a lot almost every day and I mean A LOT thanks to whatsapp , also got togheter for long walks once every 2 weeks or so So time went by and just as was starting I realized I was actually developing deep feelings for her, I panicked since I was aware of the kind of trouble I was going to get involved with if I let myself fall in love with her, so one day She insisted on talking things out with me in person so I agreed and met up with her. When the moment came it was kind of a monologue, I explained her everything to detail and told her that I wouldn't want to let things get out of control for me and didn't want to bother her with that either since she is a lesbian so I was going to back away and move on She just told me that she didn't even know what to say, but I did got her to tell me that she actually kind of knew what I was going to tell her.
After that I told her that I was going to leave before it all gets more awkward and so I did, hoping that she would just stop me and say anything to me, but she did not. Time passed by and on my birthday on 1st Q I received a strange email from her at am, it just said "I don't want to bother you. Happy birthday to you. Since that day, 2 years have passed by and our relationship is quite different: during this time we haven't been talking as much but ocasionally, we still trust eachother and care for eachother a lot but I actually drew a very large line between us.
I don't recall a single time I started a conversation between us after what happened and we still meet up for a long walk but just about once every 2 or 3 months, and we do it just because she asks for it and I still enjoy spending time with her. Started to date her during that year we didn't talk to eachother and wants to "clear her mind". Last Friday she talked to me and straightaway asked me to go out because she's having recurrent quarrels with her GF Who she lives with now , she wanted to talk to me, said that she wanted to "take a breath" because was feeling exhausted and such.
I wasn't available that day but told her it was for me meet up the next day Saturday. A way which made me realize I still have feelings for her. The problem is that I do not want to get too involved with a girl who wouldn't want me the same way, and much less to become her "crying pillow". I just don't know what to do and I'm afraid I'd take this for a long time, I wouldn't like that.
I just haven't met another girl who makes the same kind of connection with me, they all seem so dull, shallow and boring to me. Dammit I don't know what should I do, I was actually kind of good during the time we spent apart After my wounds healed, of course , but it made me so fucking happy to know that she still cared for me. I straight-male party with neighbor girl "A" that I'm not attracted to.
My neighbor has a friend another girl, we'll call her girl B who's lesbian and is attracted to my neighbor. Both girls have a short non-sexual relationship. Girl-A decides she didn't like the lesbian experience and goes straight again and stops talking to girl b. Girl B is devastated. I start to become really good friends with girl b. In the beginning I never really thought she was hot, I just thought she was okay. I never expected this to happen; after some time of getting to know her very well, I realized how much of a badass she really was and that's when the lovebug hit me.
I cannot stop thinking about girl b. She has had an ex-boyfriend before but now claims to be a lesbian. She is struggling to get over the girl "A" fling. Knowing her history of having an ex-boyfriend for 5 years, and never going all the way with a girl, Yes our friendship was close enough to talk about this info is there a chance she may be confused on what her sexual orientation actually is?
Obviously I have looked up this article because I am also currently stuck in this situation but I have to say that things progressed further and faster than either of us expected. We were co workers and started talking and becoming friends from there we began spending every night we worked together until 5 AM even though where we worked closed at midnight.
At first we were just hanging out and bonding. Yeah she was attractive but she was open about her sexuality and we would occasionally joke back and forth, being that I had a bit of a rep as a manwhore. Well the more time we spent together, the closer we became. She lived with a girl she had been with since she was 13 but didn't love anymore and was also dating a girl that she claimed was her true love. As our friendship progressed, I started going over to her house whenever her live in girlfriend was at work.
Eventually our long nights became watching movies and slowly became me holding her in my arms and her falling asleep on me which to me was a good sign of trust. We eventually started doing all the things couples do, only in secret so her girlfriends wouldn't find out. We went as far as to get sexual. Unfortunately she kept complaining that I wasn't a woman and that she was confused cause she loved me. This drove her insane cause supposedly her girlfriend was her true love but somehow I came along and she ended up loving me.
The only issue was that I knew about the whole situation whereas her girlfriend didn't know a thing and so she felt guilty for cheating. I know that guilt plays a big part in our break up. I also know that it wouldn't be fair for me to start dating again knowing no one will make me feel the way she does. I know this is lengthy but I was wondering if you could offer some advice. Lol I just watched chasing amy last night and this article seems like a guide based on the movie.
So I came across your post when searching for an answer to my own problem and I thought someone reading this might be able to help. I'm 24 and I'm a lesbian who's has never been with a guy or used sex toys or anything like that but recently I've started to feel attracted to my best friend who is a straight guy. We got really drunk the other night and kissed and I enjoyed it :-S, I think he enjoyed it as well and now I'm like what the fuck should I do?
Should I ignore how I feel and hope it goes away or embrace the fact that I have these feelings and do something about it and risk losing my best friend? Any help in this matter would be greatly appreciated because I don't have a clue what to do right now. Wow I'm in exactly the same situation. But we've been intimate. It took 6 months of being her lesbro. But now she is getting physical with me.
She is completely dominating with women, but she completely submits to me. Sweetest kisses, softest touches. Polar opposite of how she reacts with women. I'm totally in love with her, we've had the talk. Intimacy doesn't change that. I was in love with her way before she touched me. So she isn't backing away because of my affection. She's backing away because I think SHE is confused.
What a learning experience? It has been 2 weeks that I met my first lesbian friend. I'm 31 years old and she's 34, we met running bicycles and she was gorgeous, she insisted on having my number and I actually couldn't see why such a fit, green eyes beautiful blonde 34 years old women would be interested in a 5'11 a bit overweight dude with some cool personality when she can probably select ANY guy in the world.
I didn't knew she was a lesbian until she confirmed by text. Every single day we were talking over the phone and texting each other, mostly being her who initiated. Our first date she ended up in the hospital because she fell of the bike badly, I brought her good food and the like to the hospital with her best friend along before they checked her after I took care of the bikes and that's when she probably confirmed initially I was a keeper, initially. Few days later, Wednesday, she invites me to a bar with her two best friends both male and female there and her brother also being there.
She was waiting to have a few drinks, I didn't connect very well as I felt the pressure, however, she still kept coming the next day and the next day to go out and have dinner.
The problem was yesterday when she told me she was going to date her an old ex she din't see for more then 6 months friendzone initiation, sucks! I gave her my honest opinion by text late at night while she was dating and she got furious. It was illogical to tell her that type of relationship was going somewhere.. Now I feel like I totally lost her, she even insulted me saying that I din't have much to talk and that all I do is talk about XY things when I am certain we had good initially connection at least in the first bicycle date before she crashed!
I know, to short and horrible, but in the last date in the bar on the way to the bar she said to "prepare myself my love" and the second time I called her she treated and referred to me as "my love" and all those intimate words you'll respectfully call a loving partner. I'm a 31 years old fellow living in a cool penthouse here at Puerto Rico with all the goods to have amazing fun, boats, jetskis you name it and I am now unsure what she wanted out of me..
Should I let her cool now that she is pissed because I gave her my opinion on her previous ex?
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What you guys think?! I feel so empty, for 2 weeks I was able to drop like 11 lbs in record breaking time, feel even better and exercise more consistently then I ever did before Just to add to this, if anything actually needs to be added, I liked this girl the moment I saw her, but didn't want to escalate to anything sexual initially, and still don't.
That would of course be nice but she seemed like a cool girl and still might be. Her not talking to me as openly could be a result of many things. She seems shy but probably isn't, and might just think i'm an awkward creepy guy and is responding with that defense mechanism like anyone might to someone they don't know.
All this makes me feel like something is really wrong with me. When did coffee become a date? Can't you just stand up against a wall talk and drink coffee? I'm rambling but this has to make sense to someone. Its like a weak attempt of peer pressure.
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Sure there is that girl that is a b or that guy that is an ass, but its not everyone straight up and down. I happen to like a girl who 'im pretty sure is bisexual or a lesbian. She has short hair but she has the type of look where it looks cool on her. Most of the time if someone is thinking they are being a certain way, you are. What I am trying to say is that I tend to come off as awkward or creepy no matter what with no intentions to intimidate. I'm pretty smart and not so into myself that I can't care about anyone else.
While it might be hard to speak with a complete stranger there seemed to be some sort of attraction with this girl but anyway i'm experiencing that form of uncontrollable attraction that isn't remedied by going to a bar strip club or meeting random girl a b c x. I went against my creepy thoughts and took a chance, whether it was designed to make me feel a certain way is all in my head.
I am talented when it comes to drawing, like the people do in a courtroom and can draw anything im looking at. I'm not sure exactly if I am really asking a question but feel like a can relate to people who have already posted comments about this topic. Perhaps someone can relate to my comment as well. I'm really glad I found this article, mostly for the solidarity. I'm in basically the same situation as many of the other posters here.
I met this girl through a friend of mine and instantly though she was cute. I didn't know here orientation yet, and my buddy was crushing on here pretty bad, so out of respect for him, I backed off. Eventually he asked her out, she shot him down and he dipped out of both our lives for a bit. She doesn't have many friends so him leaving hit her kind of hard, since she still thought of him as a friend, so I tried to be there for her.
Its been like that for about 4 years, going on 5, the two of us being each others emotional support whenever we needed it. We ended up getting really close, even dated for a few months thanks to some prodding for my friends who saw how I acted around her, but we never did anything physical, which I thought was just because she wasn't comfortable with that sort of thing.
I never forced or pressured her into anything, and ultimately she broke up with me because she said she thought she might be into girls. Naturally, it hurt at first, but I got over it and we started hanging out as friends again. My feelings were still there though, but I never brought them up again.
Time went on, she got into some sticky situations that really wore here down emotionally, and again I tried my best to be there. We kept getting closer and closer. Over the last few months, we kept toying with different ideas, talking about moving in together, experimenting with introducing a physical aspect to our relationship, and we generally just flirt and joke around with each other too.
Two months ago, and this is going to sound really pathetic, but she actually gave me my first kiss. Never had one before cause I never really found the right girl. However, a couple of days ago, she told me that around the same time she had kissed a girl and really enjoyed it. She enjoyed kissing me too, but only in the emotional sense.
I guess that means that she's emotionally attracted to me, but not physically or sexually. She said she's pretty much sure she's into girls now, but that she wishes things could be different, because a. It sucks knowing that if circumstances were a bit different, we could be together. I promised her I would try to look around for someone else that can return my feelings.
Now, I'll be the first to say that I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world, but I'm not the worst looking either. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm actually decent looking, and could probably get a straight girl if I wanted to. But I don't. This girl is everything I could ever want in a friend, girlfriend, wife, what have you. If I were to date another girl, it wouldn't be fair to either of us, because I feel like I'd be using her as an emotional distraction. I don't know what to do, and have no one to really talk to except her.
I don't want to stop being there for her, as much for her sake as mine, since she's openly stated she doesn't want to lose me and can't imagine life without me there, and I feel the same way. But I've recently started thinking that maybe we should take a break from each other, just for a little while. Meh, thanks for giving me and others an outlet to vent and best of luck to everyone else in similar situations.
I'll leave behind the same words I've been telling myself lately. I fell in love with a lesbian , we never met but talking on phone , chatting on facebook , already passed 4 months. We both love each other very much , we tried to meet but shortly before our date for a reason or another she obologized , at the end he told me that she loves girls. She wad married to a man for about 1 year but she asked for divorce because could'nt continue, What you advice??
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To anyone who's afraid of the confession, don't be. If the girl has any kind of maturity and respect, she won't be mad if you like her. She may even be flattered even if she won't date you. I made a really good friend who is a lesbian. She and I relate on so many levels, and she tags along when I joke around and give my friends shit, like it was fucking rehearsed.
I told one friend I was falling for her, and that lead me to tell another friend, and more people wanted to know what was up, and I'm so close with all my friends, so to avoid hurting peoples feelings by leaving them out, I basically told everyone but her. Naturally she found out. The first thing she said was "That sucks. She also said she wasn't going to treat me any different. I didn't treat her any different either. Of course all that info was traveled through friends and third parties.
She Knew I liked her, and I knew she didn't like me that way. So we just let it go. Fast forward 9 months of awesome ridiculous friendship development and me still secretly liking her and I'm on my way to college. She's still in highschool, but the college is only a drive away, but none the less, I wanted to move on. And I figured the only way to do that was to talk to her about all the shit that went on between us that we BOTH knew about but just never talked about.
I wanted to hear the words from her, no more third party bull shit. So we started talking about it. It was actually really easy since we became such good friends. I told her I just admired her like crazy. Her honesty and loyalty among friends, how she just seems to get me and all my weird antics. She told me, "If you were a girl I'd totally date you.. I actually heard everything she told me through the grapevine previously. But it was still a good thing to do. Now the elephant in the room was acknowledged. And we've seemed to become stronger friends from it.
So if you guys haven't confessed, you should. And if she denies you, she probably will since she's a lesbian and all don't react all crazy. If she's cool enough to get you to fall for her under the circumstances, then she's probably cool enough to take the confession maturely. Don't make it awkward and it won't be too awkward. Time helps too, but if she's worth the chase she's worth the friendship. That's what I'm doing anyways. I have to. I'm in love with her. The best I can do is be her friend and still be there when she needs me.
I know she'll be there for me, so at least I have that covered. I'm in love with someone who'll never look at me romantically or sexually, but will always look out for me, and knows I'll look out for her. That's definitely better than nothing. And if you can't handle being friends with her after she denies you, then you didn't love her. As a 'lesbian' I totally agree. I definitely have a certain type of man I do like. But I respect the relationship I am in and realize that it is better for me.
This sucks.. I fell for a lesbian this weekend that I met on Sat.
I came here looking for help. So here it is, the first girlfriend I ever had and first girl I fell for when I was 12 was this beautiful girl who I assumed was only into men. We spilt when I was 16 because I moved to another state. We lost touch after awhile. Fast forward 18 years and we find each other on Facebook. Turns out she's been and is a full on lesbian. We become good friends and I moved into her house and rented a room after my divorce. Almost immediately after moving in we began sleeping together and hit it off and become much much closer. It's hard though as I have totally fallen for her again and she feels the same way but she's struggling and can't put any labels on it because of her sexual orientation.
She struggles because it's not natural for her to have these feelings for a guy. She struggles because she has lost so many friends and family when she came out years ago. She has put up with a lot of stares and ridicule for her sexual orientation and then suddenly she has these feelings for me.
She's knows her lesbian friends won't understand and she could possibly loose some of them. Her straight friends won't really understand either because they have known all that she has been through in being lesbian. She fears what people think when they see us together as she dresses like me but is holding a mans hand. Being a lesbian is so much of who she is she doesn't understand that no one cares what a girl wears or how her hair is if she's holding the hand of a man. Cause it's natural for us to see a girl an a guy but it's not natural for her to not see stares and glances cause she's had to put up with it for so long.
It's hard for me, I want so much for this to work. I want so much to be more understanding. But it's hard!! To me when two people feel this strong about one another they go for it. But she's has reservations that I can't fully understand no matter how hard I try because I've never lived what she's been through and never could. I have to live with the constant fear that it might not work because she may never be able to overcome this issue.
It may be too much for her to bear and it breaks my heart that she has to struggle like this for having these feelings for me. It's hard for me to understand and deal with. I was so relieved, I totally jumped the gun and may have sounded to eager to agree with her. The "misunderstandings" had to do with my sense of humor which she told me several times she did not appreciate.
Wow, must be fun at parties Aww Jeezz. After a few more interactions, I'm beginning to see what's going on: she loves the attention but has no idea what to do with me as she's not really feeling anything toward me. I'm beginning to suspect that she wants her parents to see me so she can look normal to them -- they will never accept her as a gay child. So sad Sure, on the one hand, I'd like to help her get closer to her parents, but if this is an act, how long will she be able to keep this going? They are not stupid, just bigoted. They will find out and shun her again.
Not sure I want to get involved in such deception She told me she has done this in the past for a male gay friend who took her to his mother. Had no idea this was common occurrence. Straight Guy" to lesbians in similar situations Just kidding, I'm crushed I've had many girlfriends but never connected intellectually with them -- just warm bodies sleep next to.
She's from my hometown but lives broad teaching. Then again, if she is the girl for me, I pursue her or regret for the rest of my life. At worse, we can just be friends Also, I'm comforted by the fact that artist Amanda Palmer who is bisexual has married author Neil Gaiman and the two are living happily. So maybe there's hope for me after all I came back after about a year of pretty much ignoring my hubs, and I was overwhelmed with the number of comments listed to be approved just for this article. The response to this hub was unexpected and I didn't think it would touch so many people.
This is the hub of mine with the most comments and also the longest comments. Some of you are quite the novelists. I also did not expect this article to eventually rank as high as it has on google. Thanks again to all of you for your interesting stories. BigDummy Dude, I don't know you or the intricacies of your marriage, but is your relationship really that "awesome" if your wife doesn't make you feel "taller" and "handsomer" like this other woman does?
In my experience, a desire to go poking around with someone else is a sign that something is amiss, and that my relationship isn't satisfying my needs. If everything was going truly well, or truly how you wanted it to be in your marriage, and you felt deeply, passionately in love with your wife, I can't imagine you'd have any reason to want to cheat on your wife and, even more, to regret that you didn't cheat on her.
It might just be that it's your relationship with your wife that needs work. You -can- inject the type of excitement that you experienced with this other woman into your marriage--it just takes a lot of work, a lot of changing of old patterns. I would recommend reading this blog called "Married Man Sex Life" or something like that. It details these sorts of things--how to keep a relationship exciting while still remaining monogamous. Jarman This article actually isn't satire, but I don't blame you for assuming since a lot of my other ones are.
Or at least I'm assuming you thought so, since I'm assuming your comment is also satirical. I hope. I pray. Nunya Bizniss Calm down. Nobody here is trying to get into your pants. They're all trying to get into the pants of -other- lesbians. Further, many of these lesbians are close friends with them, judging from all their stories, and I doubt these women would feel as creeped out and disgusted as you describe and choose to -continue- to be friends with these guys.
Also, I might ask what you have against fat girls. And having moist breath, for that matter. And also also also, I don't know what guys you've been around, or if this is simply your odd perception of men, but what sort of man with any degree of self-esteem will keep following you around and stalking you once you've clearly said "no"? Hang out with different guys. Sorry if my little tidbit of a story confused anyone!
Sorry about that last "hugged me" part, that was a typo, then my hand slipped and hit "post". But as I was saying, I love her so much, and I decided to confess it to her, after seven months. That went horribly. She said that she was flattered, but wasn't interested because she was a lesbian. That had a major impact on me. I tore my thumbnails off after months of extreme depression, and yet she still helped me through it all. I still love her with every bit of my heart, and I would do anything for her.
She gave me a reason to live. If the situation came to it, I would take a bullet aimed at her to let her live. I guess it'd be a bit selfish, to do that so I wouldn't need to live without her. Somebody who this subject has caused a lot of pain both mentally, physically, and emotionally,.
I broke up with my Ex fiance a few months back, in what was a whirlwind of an altercation, and was destroyed, I won't even bother lying about it. Night after night, I racked my brain for a way to get her back. She wasn't returning calls, emails or texts and our mutual friends said she wanted nothing to do with me.
I was in rough shape until i found vadoospell gmail. I'm good friends with a girl who's a lesbian, and I just so happen to be nuts about this girl. We've flirted back and forth a bit, and even talked about sleeping together once. But it was all only in fun really, just kind of joking around. That has to mean something though right? I mean she's been with guys before and even dated them before so it's not like she's a complete lesbian, but it has been awhile since her last guy. Right now I'm like her closest friend with the exception of her best friend, and I'm sure she can tell that I have an attraction to her as I make perverted jokes towards her all the time and she makes them right back at me.
I really want to tell her how I feel, but her best friend is currently dying of cancer and I just can't bring myself to drop that kind of a bombshell on her right now. I just want to be her friend right now because I know at this moment that's what she really needs the most is a friend. Things being the way they are though I don't know if I'll ever get the chance to tell her how I truly feel as she's talked about moving away if her friend dies. It sucks too, because you can usually tell if you and another person would be good together in a relationship.
And I can tell me and her would be good together. I just don't know what to do as it feels like I'd be wrong to tell her how I feel now but that if I don't I'd also be taking the chance of never getting another opportunity again to tell her. I'm so confused on what to do. A really cute and funny article about a pretty common issue.
I have been with my partner for almost three years now, but I always dated men previous to that. I just met her and fell in love sort of the opposite of the annoying stereotype that lesbians just haven't 'met the right guy', I was a 'straight' girl who just hadn't 'met the right girl' haha. You're right, sexuality is a lot more fluid than many people would like to admit. Of course there are some girls who have only ever been with women, knew they were gay from the age of two, and will never look back. But for a lot of us, figuring out what we like is a confusing and long journey Now, I'm engaged to my partner and never plan on being with a man or another woman, for that matter ever again; but should things go sour between us heaven forbid, and I don't predict that happening I couldn't rule out the possibility that I could someday be in a relationship with a man again.
I don't like putting limits on love, and labels are for cans! A lot of the reason why I am how I am today is because of my experiences with women. I have engineered a way of "staying on top" so to say, and it works. In fact these women are now so smittened by me they actually become annoying. It seems like the women in today's society like the duchebags and ass-holes of this world.
Not that it is my endgame, it just seems like if I don't, they just take advantage of you, friendzone you, or take you on a ride. A lot of the time they don't know what they want, it takes a lifetime of bad relationships, a divorce and about two kids later to realize they had it staring at them the whole time. Sometimes I look at myself and wonder who I've become, not that I treat woman terribly now, I just feel they'll probably never get to the point where they get to see who I really am.
I am fairly good at picking up women, but to tell you the honest truth, I'd trade that in a heartbeat to be with her again. At the end of the day what does all the chasing amount to? Granted those experiences have taught me a lot about social dynamics, yet I still feel the void. I hate complaining about this type of thing, I suppose because that was my first real love, and the first one is always the hardest to let go.
However, the best advice I can give to these torn men is: Remove yourself from that situation, its tough, I'm the first to admit it. In-fact I am still getting over it and it has been almost 7 months. She cant give you what you want, you're chasing the dragon like a drug addict, chasing a feeling she gives you, the more you take a hit, the more addicted you become. You are just setting yourself up for more heartache. For a woman to give up on men and cause damage to her own soul because she's too bitter and too head strong to change the type of men she's been dating Add me to the list of people who have fallen for a lesbian.
However, at this point I would like to point out that I'm only crushing on her very hard. This isn't love and I know that. There are things about this girl that I could never live with. However, that doesn't stop me from lusting for her. Recently I've had to cool it after she backed out of plans to hang out for the billionth time. She's so cool. Likes all the things I like, plays the same games I do, like to listen to the same music. She doesn't have super model looks or shape, but she's just so awesome. Bad tooth and all. I've developed feelings for this girl but I know she's pretty much female exclusive.
As a result I used her most recent cancellation of our plans to hang out as an excuse to simply cut her out of my life It's just not healthy hanging around her when we have different views on where the relationship should be. I've never told her that I like her more than a friend and to be honest I don't really think there's any need. It's just very confusing and frustrating. Not that she's gay, but how we end up being smitten by the people we get smitten by. For some reason everytime I think of her the song "Little Lies" by Fleetwood Mac runs through my head because I've so desperately wanted her to tell me the little lie that she, too, sees me as something more than a friend.
Alas, it will never happen so I feel it's just best for us to go our ways indefinitely. Sad times. I make commercials for a living - recently I travelled to Mexico on a shoot, and formed a tight bond with our lead actress. She was beautiful, intelligent, and liked the same sort of things I did.
We clicked immediately, and spent a ridiculously generous amount of time together Excursions, limo rides, luxury hotels, fancy meals We were living large on the company's dime. It was a total fantasy world. In all that time we spent together, we didn't once discuss out significant others. It was as though we were allowing ourselves to be people we weren't. Once the shoot was over, it was clear where things were headed between us once the wrap party was over The plane ride home was awkward, and coming home was brutal. My wife could tell something was up, and I couldn't bear telling her for fear of destroying my awesome relationship.
I re-connected with this woman recently, and we've tried to spend time together, but outside of Mexico it just isnt the same. We finally got around to talking about our feelings for each other and that's when she dropped the bomb She's gay. More than the guilt I feel for having an emotional or intellectual affair, I feel guilty for causing her to question her sexuality or the relationship she has with her long-term live-in may-as-well-be-a-spouse girlfriend.
Neither of us know how to proceed from here, but I have no intention of ending things with my wife. There are just too many dangerous red flags here. I keep coming back, however, to the way this woman made me feel about myself when I was with her. More dynamic and interesting. I have a woman that attractive and fascinating and inspiring be into me did a lot for my self-esteem Which I think felt a little ignored after being married for so long.
The fact that I could make a woman who identifies herself as a lesbian question her sexuality should, i suppose, also give me a moment of pride, but mostly I just feel like a big dummy for not seeing it earlier, especially when the signs were all there. I guess I need to get my gaydar fixed. Dunno if anyone else is going through anything like this. I really really miss her. Mate, you still young and you got the whole world in front of you.
Believe you me, I have been falling for girls all my life but this thing happens. My advice for you is to act cool and go for better girls. Its a natural instinct of every young girl to tease with guys and crush their hearts out.. Shes a lesbian and she thinks its cool. You like her and she knows it. Shes probably proud of herself atm and lol at you behind your back. Dont make a fool of yourself and start acting like a man. I know its hard for you but youll get over her and Im sure you will in time. She seems a bit evil to me and as much as you like her, you deserve better than that.
You dont want to be her lesbro coz she will hurt you. Stay friends with her but keep your distance. Act normal and pretend like you not interested in her anymore. Even when she teases you, just act suave and joke around a bit. Make sure you do it right. Trust me, this is the only way for you to earn some respect from her. Well at first I had no clue what to type in. I mean what would you type in to search for? How does a guy deal with falling in love with a lesbian.
If you kind of think about it its kind of hard to explain. Well yea I'm still in highschool but for some reason I just can't get this girl out of my head. I'm always thinking of her but I don' know why. About three years ago is when I actually started talking to her a lot. We had lunch together and most of the time I would end up staying up late at night just talking to her on the phone for long hours during the night.
I knew she didn't like when I did that because she was a super smart student but you know I like a girl that kind of has some smarts. Well to get to the point after talking to this girl for several hours at a time. By this point I had gotten really close to her. She would tell me almost anything. All I had to do was ask. Well I kind of told her that I liked her. Now it was kind of a long sweet little letter that I wrote to her and on the day of Christmas I told her. I knew it would be perfict but unexpectedlly she said that she was going out with another girl at the same time I asked her out.
Fast forwarding a year later she tells me that she breaks up with this girl but, at this time I still did not know that she was going out with her. I was really furious with her. It wasn't the smartest thing that I had ever done but I ended up not talking to her for the rest of the year. Now after a year of separation and talking to other girls I ended up not felling the same way that I felt when I was with her. I guess you could say that I felt real love with her for the first time.
I felt that I should talk to her again so continued to re-establish our relationship. Soon enough a girl a year older than me continuously walks around the school with her everyday. Prom was comming up and I wanted to take her to prom and she never exactlly said no. That was until today when we talked things over and she told me that she was dating this girl that she was in love with since freshman year Ironic because I loved her since Freshman year even when I was mad at her. I have no Idea what to do right now.
I'm guessing that I'll just be lesbros but I love her like crazy. Maybe I do want that Forbiden Fruit but some how I feel like its for another reason. I know other guys think that she is beautiful I've even told her that she's beautiful. The thing is when I asked her on christmas day I asked her if she wasn't going out with this girl then she'd might go out with me.
Someone please help me :. You guys are only in High School so I believe you have a good chance with her just be patient. She is not all the way gay if she continues to sleep with you and sober as well. Communicate with her the best you can. Tell her how you feel about everything. Don't bottle it up. I wish you luck. Well, I'm still FWB with a lesbian-identified girl. The two of us still continue to have sex, while sober, and everything is still going well.
She always acts like the two of us are a couple, and even gave me a promise ring style gift last week. She talks about possibly having a child in the future we're still in high school now though. Problem is, she still identifies as a lesbian. I know that since both of us are in high school, and her reputation matters to her a lot, and her reputation is built around being a lesbian.
Do you guys think she really is, or is only identifying as such because of her reputation? I really want to know if I have a chance with this girl. She's my closest friend, and is my girlfriend in every sense except for labeling us as a couple. It's confusing, because I love her. I didnt want to post a comment at first actually but just cant help it. Im a lad and my best mate is a lesbian through and through. Shes the coolest girl I ever met and I care about her more than anything. We always hang out and do stuff together and we just cant not seeing each other more than days.
Its a bit weird but we both kinda understand that we in a more than special friendship so to speak. Shes sorta seeing another lass atm but Im feeling happy for her that she seems happy. Im single and she keeps trying to hook me up with some of her straight female mates but so far things havent been going well for me self. I have seen her being ditched by her ex-girlfriends before but I have always been there for her whenever she needed me.
With her new girl, I can tell that they are no match made in heaven and I could sense all hell is going to break lose very soon. As much as I want her to be my life partner, she has to realize it by herself. I always open to the idea but at the same time Im trying my chances with other girls coz hey, you never know what you might find.